Dear Jef Holm, you’re killin’ us smalls. (And no, that’s not even a short joke, okay?) Ever since Jef and Emily Maynard called it quits (the first time), we’ve been having a love-hate relationship with this Bachelorette alum. We love his hair, hate his dating antics — you know, that kinda thing. Well, if you’ve been confused up until this point, it’s time to settle in for a long winter’s nap, because this is about to blow your mind. We know...